Sports is a religion with some people, and even Mormons at times. When a favorite team wins it can feel like all is right in the world. A loss can bring depression and even anger. Rivalries are often pitched as a battle between good and evil. The obsession has limitless potential to unbalance and unhinge the most serious minds. That said, when third ranking Brigham Young University basketball player Brandon Davies was suspended from playing because of breaking the school’s honor code, a different kind of discussion took place. The Internet and sports enthusiasts asked how could a championship be jeopardized by something so silly as sleeping with your girlfriend? That sounded too irrational and, well, old fashioned. Actually, it was described as archaic as if a relic not of recent history, but of all history. No one came to the school’s defense of having the honor code, even among the religious. Mormons alone seemed convinced that his behavior was wrong and had consequences.
Most of the positive reaction was that BYU, despite the position it would put the sports team, upheld the honor system when it might have waited until safely after the championship. Others were impressed that that the honor code was upheld at all. None of them felt that the honor code should exist beyond the academic ethics of no cheating. Punishment for what is seen as a “youthful fact of life” was unconscionable. A few even called it un-American and worse. Such is modern Western culture that expectations of virginity before marriage and fidelity after has become disgraceful. Has it come to the point where Mormonism alone teaches a long held belief in the sanctity of marriage and procreation? It is hard to conclude otherwise. Continue reading