For this post, I’d like to ask readers to put themselves in the position of an LDS family with the following circumstances.
–The husband and wife are in their late-30s. They have four kids.
–The husband and wife have decided that it is better for the husband to stay at home and watch the kids these days because the wife has a law degree and she wants to go back to work. The husband is working on a book but has not yet found a publisher.
–The wife has just been fired by her law firm which is going out of business. She was making $120k a year before. The only job she can find is one making $90k to start.
–The family has $120k of combined student loan debt. It is paying faithfully. There is about $20k of credit card debt, which is being paid down every month. There is a mortgage on the house, but the house is under water (they bought it five years ago for $250k and they have a $220k mortgage, but the house was recently valued at $170k).
–The husband and wife sit down and go over their debts and their income. They see they have a $1000 hole between their new income and their current expenses. They have some difficult choices to make. Let’s look at what responses would be smart and credible and what choices wouldn’t fly.